Ok, so I took all this great advice and built out my 1st phase electronics, using the 95Ah factory aux AGM battery to power these DC loads:
Pico monitor and USB ports
Maxxair Fan
Espar diesel heater
Fresh water pump
Gray water pump
Macerator pump
Fridge
Freezer
We drove the van from Montreal to San Diego, (60 hours /10 days) and then back again a few months later. I actually installed the fridge / freezer while in California, so we just used a cooler on the first leg of the trip. Without the fridge / freezer, we had about 2 days of power, so we never needed shore power. With the fridge/freezer, We had about 10 hours of power, so some nights I would turn the fridge off, and leave the freezer on, or connect to shore power (anything to keep our ice cream frozen!).
Control Panel:
Ice cream!
For the next phase of the build, I'm adding:
315Ah Lithionics LiPo battery
https://lithionicsbattery.com/product/12v-315ah-e2107-gtx-battery/
Xantrex XC PRO 3000W inverter
https://www.xantrex.com/power-products/inverter-chargers/freedom-xcpro.aspx
Kisae DMT1250 DC-DC charger
https://www.kisaepower.com/products/dmt1250/
Kenyon Induction Cook top
https://www.cookwithkenyon.com/shop/silken2-2-burner-trimline/
I'm leaving the Aux AGM battery in, as it is quite integrated with the van, and powers a small AC inverter upfront as well as some small electronics. I am planning on installing a compressor down the road, and will probably mount it in the engine bay, and connect it the the aux battery rather than the house battery (in the rear). I have 2/0 cables (fused) running from the aux battery to the DC panel in the rear of the van from the first phase of the build, and these will now be hooked to the DC-DC charger.
I have a design consideration that I'm hung up on, and could use some help:
Jump starting the van
When the starter battery goes flat, it would be nice to be able to use the aux (AGM) battery or the house (lithium) battery to jump start the van. If were to use the factory aux battery, I would need to combine the batteries. I've heard some sprinters RVs have a button on the dash, which I believe just turns on the combiner relay to connect the two batteries (the one that combines them for charging purposes when the van is running). I've heard some people say that this combined circuit isn't really meant to be used to start the vehicle, and shouldn't really have the high current of a starter. Maybe combining the batteries for a few minutes and then releasing the button before attempting to start the engine is a solution to this concern, but it probably means limited success. Another issue with this set up would be that I'm relying on the aux battery to be charged. It's not going to be supporting any big loads, but unless I set up a charger from the house battery, it wont be connected to shore or solar.
If I were to use the house battery (located in the rear), I could use the existing 2/0 power cable, but it would need it to be unfused to be able to support the high current of the starter, so I would need some sort of battery combine switch in the rear (to direct connect the House battery to the 2/0 cables), and another switch in the front to bypass the fuse and connect to the starter battery (instead of the aux battery, or combine the batteries). This all seems overly complicated, and slightly dangerous. Another option would be just to carry a long jumper cable to connect the post of the house battery with the post in the engine bay (probably 20 feet long or so).
A final option would be, instead of relying on a direct connect between the batteries, I could have a dc charger hooked from the house to the starter battery to keep it topped up. This seems like a pretty good option, though it might mean waiting around for an hour or so (if the charger wasn't on, or if the van was stored for a couple months).
Any thoughts on combining the two AGM batteries through the relay, combining the House battery through the 2/0 cable, just using a long jumper cable, or relying on a battery charger?