I'm generally gentle, with me not being gentle being the exception. But where I live, it's 25 mph- or less, because kids walking about, especially around school time because both the elementary school (a third of a mile from my house) and the intermediate school (about a mile and a half from my house) are walking-only for my area and there are a lot of kids- necks on a swivel- for the first mile or so. So its only the winter when I'm pulling on to a higher-speed road with less then 2-3 bars on.
Actually, I don't feather the throttle at all, come to think of it. It's a gentle drive to the end of my block and the stop sign, and then Distronic handling everything else but stopping thereafter. So, for example, turning out of the village onto the main road, I set Distronic to 50 once I get to the traffic light ( which is the limit on that road), and then the light turns or traffic starts moving, I just hit resume. Van accelerates as it wants to.