My wife is a resort girl too. I have two young daughters. The van is the best thing we have ever spent too much money on. It has changed our lives, how we travel and what we get to experience.
It makes far flung travel across the US cheap enough that we drop into a nice hotel when my wife has had enough camping and its still in our budget since we are not paying airfare, daily restaurants etc. Sometimes we camp for a week while heading to a resort, then spend a week someplace with a luxury spa etc. We both get what we want.
If our lives ever went completely sideways we could pull the pin and live in the van and be far more comfortable than most people without a fixed home.
My wife wanted a big RV. I am a backpacker and couldnt do that. She loves the van, the places we go and the things we see that NOBODY ever saw in an RV. The sprinter has a HUGE windshield. There is no better vehicle to roadtrip in if you are into seeing what you are driving through along the way.
We have a lot of luxury for a small van including gourmet pour over coffee in the mornings, internet, hot water, ability to run a hair dryer or other high demand electronics, a bed that rivals the comfort of our $4K latex bed at home.
Show me a hotel room (that I can afford a half dozen times a year) with a view that rivals these and I will sell my van: