www.techauthority.com is a website with all the service manual and wiring information available to non-dealership employees. Techauthority is a subscription service, $20 for 24 hours' access to the current line up of Chrysler vehicles, going back further than you'd need to go, typically.
Do you mean Automatic Shut Down Relay? I'm not sure that functionality is implemented by a single relay in the NCV3 architecture.
-Jon