in the 05/06, the PCV is a plastic box on the passenger most side of the valve cover. there is a filter and a few chambers in there designed to trap the oil before it gets too far out of the motor. there is a rubber hose that leaves this box at the front end of the motor and heads down to the intake tube between the aircleaner box and the turbo (which makes sense....since it's the only place that never sees boost pressure, only vacuum).
I don't know if the 2004 has the exact same arrangement, but it probably has something very similar.
it's highly possible that your motor is pushing oil into the intake stream thru the PCV system.
I cannot find a service replacement for the filter in the plastic pcv box. dodge wants to sell the whole box for a couple hundred bucks. the parts stores don't seem to carry it. I suppose it could be washed, it's little more than twine wrapped around a hollow core.
my 2005 is pretty bad about it, and I'm seriously considering plumbing in a proper catch can.